The following are my thoughts on this book and video series by Rick Warren. My intent in writing these articles is not to be divisive, but to live out 1 Thess 5:21-22: "But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good; abstain from every form of evil." My challenge to you is to judge for yourself according to scripture whether or not what I am saying is true. If I misrepresent anything Rick Warren states or say anything that is untrue, please correct me. God bless!
"We're commissioned to reach out together by being intentional."I want to make a general comment here that I think this chapter is pretty good and I am in general agreement with it. There are a few items I want to comment on, but overall Rick had good advice and exhortation here.
The Apostle Paul was a veteran at reaching out to nonbelievers because he cared about what God cares most about: people!I understand what Rick is trying to say here, but the statement is not entirely true. God actually cares more about His reputation than about sustaining rebellious people who continually reject Him. God was about to destroy Israel, but for the sake of His reputation before the world, He allowed them to remain (though not all of them). It was for HIS sake, not the sake of the rebellious people that He had mercy on them. If what God cares most about is people, then how is it that any of them are punished? What about all the peoples living in the land of Canaan that Israel was to abolish (man, woman, child, infant and beast)? What about all those that perished in the flood? What about those who will find themselves in Hell? How did God get along without people before He created the world? Do you see how Rick's statement takes the focus off of God and puts it onto people?
...make sure our words are "always kind and pleasant." When you know the truth, it is tempting to be preachy and pushy with the gospel. But people are never argued into the family of God. They are attracted to it by love.People will be offended by our words no matter how loving we are, and we should know to expect this. But love does get emotional and heated at times. Love does defend the truth in debate, though not in mindless arguing over preferences. In fact I am having ongoing debate with an Athiest right now concerning sin and God's judgment. I continually show him kindness and care for him, but I am very strong in what I say at times. This is most necessary. Imagine saying something like: "Its nicer over at my house and I've already got a pot of tea on" to someone whom you are trying to convince to leave their burning house. You have to share the truth, and sometimes forcefully... but always motivated in love for them and not notches in your belt or any other personal satisfaction.
Question to Consider: Will anybody be in heaven because of you?That kind of question implicitly motivates me to count numbers and maybe compromise the truth to get people to make "decisions" which may be no decision at all. A better question would be: "would God consider you to have faithfully obeyed Him when you enter heaven?" We must obey God even if no one responds. What about Noah? If numbers in heaven was a measure of faithfulness, then Noah wouldn't have been very faithful... only 8 and all from his family.